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How to Get a Woman More Invested in You Over Text (Texting Quiz Breakdown)

May 17, 20252 min read

What do you say when she brags about herself over text?

Most guys either compliment her, agree, or escalate too fast.
But the real move — the move that builds attraction — is to get her to
invest more.

This post breaks down a real texting example that got a woman to send five replies in a row by doing just one thing: letting her chase.

👇 Watch the full video breakdown with text examples and quiz results:


Why Getting Her to Invest is the Game

Attraction isn't built by trying to convince her you're a great guy.

It's built when she convinces herself that you're worth her time.

And one of the best ways to do that is by getting her to put more effort into the conversation.

More effort = more emotional investment.

And that leads to her chasing you.


The Mistake Most Guys Make in These Moments

When a woman says something like, “I bake the best muffins” — most guys either flirt back, compliment her, or ask her out.

But all of those put YOU back in the investing role.

The smarter move?

Get her to
keep talking about herself.
Make her prove herself.

That keeps her in the role of trying to impress YOU — and that’s what creates desire.


Texting Example – The Line “What Other Skills Do You Have?”

In this quiz example, she says she’s a baker and that she loves marionberry muffins.

I could’ve flirted. I could’ve escalated.
But instead, I asked:

“What other skills do you have?”

That one question made her brag about her cooking, being a sweetheart, being loved by old people and babies…
and she replied
five times in a row.

All because I didn’t chase.
I let her keep investing.


Why This Works (Psychology Breakdown)

This works because it activates the psychology of consistency bias.

The more effort she puts in, the more her brain justifies that you’re worth that effort.
She starts saying things like:

“I don’t know why I told him all that…”

And boom — she feels closer to you.
And the best part?

She talks herself into liking you.
You didn’t push. She pulled.


How to Spot Moments to Pull Investment

Next time a woman tries to impress you over text — stop trying to be clever.
Instead,
look for those bragging moments and use them as your chance to say:

“Tell me more.”

When she’s doing the talking, she’s doing the investing.
And the more she invests, the more likely she is to chase, open up, and want to meet.


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Adam has helped thousands of men improve their dating and relationship life since 2016.

Adam Jordan

Adam has helped thousands of men improve their dating and relationship life since 2016.

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