
How to Get a Woman More Invested in You Over Text (Texting Quiz Breakdown)
What do you say when she brags about herself over text?
Most guys either compliment her, agree, or escalate too fast.
But the real move — the move that builds attraction — is to get her to invest more.
This post breaks down a real texting example that got a woman to send five replies in a row by doing just one thing: letting her chase.
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Why Getting Her to Invest is the Game
Attraction isn't built by trying to convince her you're a great guy.
It's built when she convinces herself that you're worth her time.
And one of the best ways to do that is by getting her to put more effort into the conversation.
More effort = more emotional investment.
And that leads to her chasing you.
A simple shift gets her investing—learn to let her talk more so she chases.
The Mistake Most Guys Make in These Moments
When a woman says something like, “I bake the best muffins” — most guys either flirt back, compliment her, or ask her out.
But all of those put YOU back in the investing role.
The smarter move?
Get her to keep talking about herself.
Make her prove herself.
That keeps her in the role of trying to impress YOU — and that’s what creates desire.
Texting Example – The Line “What Other Skills Do You Have?”
In this quiz example, she says she’s a baker and that she loves marionberry muffins.
I could’ve flirted. I could’ve escalated.
But instead, I asked:
“What other skills do you have?”
That one question made her brag about her cooking, being a sweetheart, being loved by old people and babies…
and she replied five times in a row.
All because I didn’t chase.
I let her keep investing.
Why This Works (Psychology Breakdown)
This works because it activates the psychology of consistency bias.
The more effort she puts in, the more her brain justifies that you’re worth that effort.
She starts saying things like:
“I don’t know why I told him all that…”
And boom — she feels closer to you.
And the best part?
She talks herself into liking you.
You didn’t push. She pulled.
How to Spot Moments to Pull Investment
Next time a woman tries to impress you over text — stop trying to be clever.
Instead, look for those bragging moments and use them as your chance to say:
“Tell me more.”
When she’s doing the talking, she’s doing the investing.
And the more she invests, the more likely she is to chase, open up, and want to meet.
When it works, you’ll start seeing high-interest texts—here’s how to read and respond.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q: What actually makes a woman invest more over text?
A: Space and curiosity. Short prompts tied to her interests, then you pause. When she adds detail or opens first, that’s investment.
Q: How do I avoid chasing while trying to get investment?
A: One message at a time. Match her tempo and keep replies a touch shorter than hers. Don’t fill silence—let her work for it.
Q: What are good prompts that spark longer replies?
A: Callbacks (“You said you hate pineapple on pizza—defend yourself”) or small challenges tied to something she mentioned. Specific > generic.
Q: How do I know it’s working?
A: She opens first, asks you questions, shares photos/voice notes, or offers availability. Those are green lights to move toward plans.
Q: Should I compliment more to get investment?
A: Make compliments rare and earned. One precise line after she invests hits harder than daily praise.
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