In today's world, it's easy to feel like you're competing against some impossible standard when it comes to dating. Women are often said to have a checklist known as the "Six Sixes," which supposedly sets the bar for what they want in a man. But here's the truth: while these traits might increase attraction, they're not the end-all-be-all for success in dating.

In fact, understanding the biological basis behind these expectations can help you navigate the dating scene without needing to meet every single one of them. So, what are these infamous Six Sixes? Let's break them down and see why you don't need to be a millionaire with a six-pack to succeed with women.

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Understanding the Six Sixes

The concept of the "Six Sixes" is something that many women reportedly use as a baseline when evaluating potential partners. This list includes:

1. A six-figure income
2. A car with 600 horsepower
3. Six-pack abs
4. Being six months removed from the last relationship
5. Being six feet tall
6. Having six inches or more in the pants 🍆

These might seem like superficial traits, but they stem from deeper, biological drives that women are programmed to seek: the ability to PROTECT, PROVIDE, and PROCREATE. While these might sound daunting, it's crucial to understand that having "game"—meaning social skills, confidence, and charisma—can compensate for lacking these traits.

Breaking Down Each Trait

Six-Figure Income: The Provider Signal

The idea that women want a man with a six-figure income is rooted in the biological desire for security. Money signals a man's ability to PROVIDE resources and stability for a potential family. But remember, having a high income isn't the only way to demonstrate that you can provide. Women fall in love with POTENTIAL. Even if you don't have a six-figure salary, if you show traits of ambition and drive, that can signal the potential to be a six-figure earner, which will keep you in the game.

600-Horsepower Car: Status and Provision

A powerful car might suggest the ability to provide, but it also hints at social status and risk-taking—a PROVOCATIVE combo that can be attractive. However, these are not the only ways to show you can PROVIDE; your actions and decisions can speak volumes. Personally I have never had a car that is more expensive than $15,000. I've had old beat up trucks, i've had average 'normal' cars... and that has never stopped me from success with women.

Six-Pack Abs: Protection and Genetics

Physical fitness signals that a man is capable of PROTECTING and has good genes for offspring. But don't stress if you're not rocking washboard abs; maintaining a healthy lifestyle and showing dedication to fitness can be just as compelling. Show her that you keep an active lifestyle. Are you going to the gym? Are you hiking? Are you playing sports? Are you aware of nutrition and the food you are putting in your body? Are you doing SOMETHING that shows you are taking care of your healthy habits?

Six Months Since Last Relationship: Emotional Availability

Being emotionally available is crucial for a relationship. Women want to feel safe (PROTECT) knowing that you're not hung up on an ex. It's about being ready to invest emotionally in a new connection.

Six Feet Tall: Protection and Genetics

Height often correlates with perceived ability to PROTECT and desirable genetics. While you can't change your height, you can definitely work on how you carry yourself—confidence is KEY. This is one of the most obvious ones we have heard all over the mainstream media. Women say they want a TALL man... and many men say a guy must be over '6 feet tall'. But statistics don't back that up. We are looking at somewhere around 5% of the men in the world being over 6 feet tall. And if you look around in the real world, you will see plenty of men under 6 feet that are landing beautiful women. If you are on the shorter side, do as much as you can to bulk up in the gym. A strong muscular frame can make up for a lot if you are lower in the height category. Or the supreme confidence of a man can make you APPEAR much larger in life.

Six Inches in Pants 🍆: Procreation Potential

This trait is linked to procreation and sexual prowess. But here's the deal: sexual chemistry and connection go beyond size. It's about how you make her feel—and that's something you can control. Again this is one that gets in a lot of guys heads... but one of my real-life buddies who is one of the best at 'game' that i've been around has admitted to me that he has 'basically' a micro-penis. He was embarrassed about it all through high-school but finally accepted it and ever since he accepted it, he decided that will NOT stop him. He has gotten laid more times than 95% of men in the world. CONFIDENCE beats size.

Setting Your Own Standards

While it's important to understand what women might be looking for, it's equally crucial to set your OWN standards. Many women might demand these Six Sixes, but that doesn't mean you should settle for less. Identify what you value in a woman and keep your standards high. Women respect men that have boundaries, and if a woman isn't treating you how you deserve to be treated, you walk away. And when a woman feels that you are NOT scared of walking away from her, she learns she needs to do her part and treat you well because she respects your backbone.

For more on navigating these dynamics and how to show confidence, check out How to Be the Prize.

You Don't Need the Six Sixes to Succeed

Despite not possessing most of these traits myself, I've had monumental success in dating. It's all about having "game." Social skills, confidence, and charisma can make up for what you might lack in these checklist items. Remember, attraction is more than just ticking boxes—it's about the connection you create and the value you bring.

As a final tally here is how MY actual Six Sixes list works out... I only have met 3 of these 6 and have had success with hundreds of women.

1. A six-figure income (never had)
2. A car with 600 horsepower (never had)
3. Six-pack abs (never had)
4. Being six months removed from the last relationship (check)
5. Being six feet tall (check)
6. Having six inches or more in genital size (check)

Explore more on What to Text a Girl You Like to enhance your connection through messages.

Frequently Asked Questions

What are the Six Sixes women look for in men?
The Six Sixes typically refer to a six-figure income, a car with 600 horsepower, six-pack abs, being six months out of a relationship, being six feet tall, and having six inches or more in genital size. These traits signal a man's ability to protect, provide, and procreate.

Can you succeed in dating without the Six Sixes?
Absolutely. While these traits can increase attraction, they're not essential for success. Social skills, confidence, and charisma can make up for what you might lack in these areas. I (Adam Jordan) personally only meet 3 of the 6 'requirements' and that has never stopped me.

Why do women value these traits?
These traits are linked to biological drives for security, status, and good genetics. They signal a man's ability to protect, provide, and procreate, which are attractive to many women.

How can I improve my dating game if I don't meet these traits?
Focus on developing your social skills, confidence, and charisma. Understanding the psychology of attraction and learning effective communication can greatly enhance your dating success. That is what this website TextingPrince is here to help you achieve. And with personal coaching, you can make BIG progress in a short period of time.

Final Thoughts

The Six Sixes might seem like a daunting list, but they're just a part of the bigger picture. By focusing on the underlying principles of protection, provision, and procreation, and enhancing your social skills, you can navigate the dating world successfully. Whether you meet these traits or not, remember that having game can elevate you beyond any checklist.

If you're ready to master the art of attracting women without needing the Six Sixes, start with my free training The Art of Texting Women Masterclass.

Or if you want direct 1-on-1 coaching to fix your texting game in real time, book a personal session with me here: TextingPrince.com/coaching.

Talk soon,

Adam Jordan
Founder, TextingPrince